Biblically Masculine Black Men struggle with Some Black Women because of this!
The struggle is real!
Recently, my family and I had the opportunity to visit a well known Christian University.
Being on that campus helped to reinforce an idea that had been germinating for a while.
When we walked around an environment that trains the future leaders for Christ, I recognized that the majority of the students on the campus did not look like us.
Yet, I didn’t find that offensive or demeaning in any way. I didn’t feel any micro-aggressions or hidden bias.
What I did see was that it would be challenging for a biblically masculine black man to find a black woman on that campus.
Truth be told, it doesn’t matter if the woman is black, white, hispanic, asian, etc. as long as the two have shared values.
But, that is the crux of the issue.
Unfortunately, a large number of black women have been poisoned by feminism, the Democratic Party, and the Matriarchal culture that dominates in the black community.
This poison has convinced black women that they either do not need a man or to reject the idea of biblical order outright.
We see this demonstrated in how black men and black women vote.
Black women vote for the Democratic Party because the Democratic Party caters to black women.
Just look at all of the equity hires made by the Biden Administration. Look at the grants and other opportunities that have been afforded to black women.
Black men have been left out in the cold.
So, when a biblically masculine black man wants to find a partner for life, he will have a hard time finding a black woman that shares the same values as him.
She will push back at the notion that he is the leader of the home.
She will push back at the notion that he may not be where she wants him to be financially.
She will push back at the notion of being a help-meet called alongside to accomplish the purpose that God has for the marriage.
She will even challenge the notion that her body belongs to her husband.
So, most biblically masculine black men retreat from the dating scene all together and would rather remain single.
This is detrimental to the future of the black community and America at large.
Marriage is the first institution that God ordained. God created marriage, not man.
But, the devil has used legitimate grievances of the past to assault the essential foundation of a flourishing society.
When marriage fails, society fails.
And, subsequently so does a country.
”Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.“
Hebrews 13:4 NKJV